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3 cups

A Loving Heart

3 cups

Healthy Communication

2 tsp.

Fidelity 

1 cup

Compromise

2 tsp.

Purity 

2 tbsp.

Truth &Honesty

1½ cups

Listening Ear

3 cups

Loving Heart 

3 cups

Healthy Communication

2 tsp.

Affirmation & Positive Confession

1 cup

Truth, Honesty & Fidelity 

2 tsp.

Resourcefulness 

2 tbsp.

Support & Acts Of Kindness 

1½ cups

Understanding & Compromises

PG's Recipe For 

Lasting Romance 

PGPEDIA

"Love's Labour Lost: Embracing Self-Worth When Cupid's Arrow Misses The Mark

Ah, the bitter irony of life's relational tapestry, where one may find themselves a tragic hero in a Shakespearean play. It's a stark reminder of the pitfalls of sacrificing one's self-worth at the altar of a relationship where the love is unrequited. In the trenches of such emotional warfare, it's crucial to remember that your value does not decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth.



Discussing this, one might find a kind of solace in knowing they're not alone in the experience. Many of us, at some point, have fought valiantly for a love that turned out to be a mirage, a quixotic quest that leaves us questioning our own judgment. But it's from these ashes that we often rise wiser, albeit with a tinge of melancholy. The lesson, albeit learned the hard way, teaches us about boundaries, self-respect, and the courage to walk away when we're not seen, heard, or valued. Isn't it quite the journey, from heartbreak to self-discovery? In this grand theatre of life, where we are both audience and actors, the plot twist of realizing one's affection is not only unreciprocated but also unwelcomed, is a tough pill to swallow. It's a solemn wake-up call to reassess one's investments, be it emotional, temporal, or financial.






To continue pouring oneself into a vessel that's not just cracked but outright hostile is akin to watering a plant with salt water. The more you pour, the more you destroy your own garden. It's a poignant reflection of human nature's tendency to cling to the familiar, to battle against the inevitable, fueled by a cocktail of hope and fear of change.




But here's where the melody changes tune, where one stops dancing to the rhythm of rejection and starts humming to self-appreciation. It's about finding that fine line between commitment and self-compromise. In the echoes of these experiences, we often stumble upon our own worth and the understanding that sometimes, the most profound act of love is to choose oneself.

It's not a tale of giving up, but rather, a narrative of moving forward. With a bit of humour to lighten the weight on our shoulders, we can look back and chuckle at our own naivety, at the folly of our own hearts, and in that laughter, find the strength to write a new chapter. After all, every end is just a new beginning, isn't it?





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PG Sebastian 

PG is a Published Author (“Our Thirty Little Busy Bees” and “Of Spiders And Silkworms”) a trained Marriage and Family Counselor, a Relationship Coach And a Conference Speaker on thematic issues confronting the modern family.
 

At the corporate level, PG is a professional Insurance Underwriter with over a decade of experience in insurance. His areas of interest are in Motor, Property, and Workmen Compensation insurance underwriting and claims handling. He works with Enterprise Insurance where he heads their Industrial Area Branch.

 

PG loves cooking and trying out exotic recipes. He also loves music, watching movies, mostly thrillers, and reading.

 

He resides in Ghana with his beautiful wife and their two amazing children, a boy and a girl.

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